When You Learn How to Die, You Learn How to Live

What a great line from the movie (and I assume the book), Tuesdays With Morrie. As I thought about this quote, I thought about something: we often wonder what Jesus did in those 30 or so years before we know of his earthly ministry. Maybe, just maybe, he was learning how to die, which let him know how to live.

I think we (human beings) are afraid of what will happen if we truly live. We’re afraid to lose – to lose loved ones, acceptance, possessions, power, even life itself. Yet, if we live in fear of losing these things, we also don’t gain these things. We never actually step out in love to live.

The Jesus we know about knew how to die – by loving wastefully. He loved people that most people think are a waste of time to love – the sick, poor, women, children, even enemies. He loved “causes” or programs that showed everybody’s worth in God’s kingdom, in God’s sight – causes that most people think are a waste of time. His living led to his death, but his death showed how we are to live, without fear but with love.

  • 1 John 4:  17 Love has been perfected among us in this: that we may have boldness on the day of judgment, because as he is, so are we in this world. 18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear; for fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not reached perfection in love. 19 We love because he first loved us. 20 Those who say, “I love God,” and hate their brothers or sisters, are liars; for those who do not love a brother or sister whom they have seen, cannot love God whom they have not seen. 21 The commandment we have from him is this: those who love God must love their brothers and sisters also. (NRSV)
  • Romans 14:  7 We do not live to ourselves, and we do not die to ourselves. 8 If we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord; so then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s. 9 for to this end Christ died and lived again, so that he might be Lord of both the dead and the living. (NRSV)
(Originally posted at http://theology-of-t-roy.blogspot.com/2007/04/when-you-learn-how-to-die-you-learn.html on April 14, 2007)

Buried Talents in Need of Resurrection

The point is, if I now endorse what I previously rejected, then I am demonstrating that I have no integrity. In fact, my old identity, defined by religious customs, passed away, so that a new God-given identity could come to life. I was crucified with the Anointed. The person I used to be no longer lives. God’s Anointed lives in me; and the bodily life I now live, I live by the same confident trust in God that the “son of God” had. He loved me and gave up his life for my benefit.

Galatians 2:18-20 (Scholars Version)

Just so, my friends, you symbolically died to the jurisdiction of the law when you identified yourselves with the crucified body of the Anointed, so that you could be free to commit yourselves to another, to the one who was raised from the dead, in order that we may be productive in the service of God.

Romans 7:4 (Scholars Version)

All too often, I believe that we think too narrowly about theological topics. One of those is “resurrection.” We assume:

  • There is only one conception of resurrection in the Bible (actually there are multiple!). For more information on that read Bernard Brandon Scott’s book, The Trouble with Resurrection: From Paul to the Fourth Gospel.
  • Resurrection has to do with only a physical, bodily resurrection. Actually, the apostle, Paul, says it is spiritual (for more read 1 Corinthians 15:35-44).
  • Resurrection is something that happens only when we die.

In contrast, consider the passages above where Paul is essentially saying, I have died to an old way of life so I can live anew – NOW – being productive for God!  Plus, we can also probably all think of times in which we have been spiritually or emotionally “dead” and experienced new life by the empowering grace of God, which allowed us to live for God.  These images, too, seem to be resurrection.

Another image of resurrection that happens now while we live on this earth came to mind yesterday as I was contemplating the Children’s Sermon and Rev. Paul Goodrich’s sermon based on the parable of the talents (Matthew 25:14-30). God resurrects those talents that we have buried deep within ourselves – those talents that we might not want others to know we have, or talents we have never nurtured at all.

This past Saturday, I met a man who recollected to me how, as a child, he loved listening to the sound of the pedal-steel guitar coming across the airwaves on WSM (aka the Grand Old Opry). He said that he had always wanted to learn to play the instrument. In 1978, after moving to this area (Wichita Falls, Texas), he tried to find someone to teach him locally, but he could find no one.

In his words, “Life happened,” and he became distracted until 1992. He came across the name of a steel guitarist for a band based out of the Dallas / Ft. Worth area. He contacted him and convinced him to give lessons. So, every week for two years, he drove to DFW every Saturday morning for a lesson.

Today, he is productive in the service of the Lord by playing benefit and community concerts. Likewise, he teaches others to play the pedal-steel guitar to help them “resurrect” buried God-given talents for music.

Questions to Ponder:

  • What talents lie buried within you?
  • Are you purposely hiding that talent or is it a talent yet to be nurtured?
  • What is keeping you from letting that talent grow and bloom for the betterment of others and yourself? Remember we are to love our neighbors as OURSELVES!
  • How is God already at work in you, trying to make that talent come forth?

(This post was originally posted at http://fumcwf.org/archives/4877 under the title of
“Thoughts for Lent: Buried Talents in Need of Resurrection” on March 28, 2011.)

Give It Up to God?

“That’s what I’m telling you, don’t fret about your life – what your going to eat and drink, or about your body – what you’re going to wear.  There’s more to living than food and clothing, isn’t there?

“So don’t fret.  Don’t say, ‘What are we going to eat?’ or ‘What are we going to drink?’ or ‘What are we going to wear?’  These are all things pagans seek.  After all, your heavenly Father is aware that you need them all.  Seek God’s empire and his justice first, and all these things will come to you as a bonus.”

Matthew 6:25, 31-33 (Scholars Version)

Unemployment is high.  Our 401k plans are up and down.  The political future of our nation is in question on many, many levels, and Jesus says, “Don’t fret.“  Putting it another way, some people will tell those with the situations that cause fretting, “Give it up to God.”  If only it were that easy.

This was a topic of discussion at the Men’s Breakfast Group on Wednesday, March 16, 2011 as we discussed Dr. Alyce McKenzie’s first Perkins Lecture, “The Fear of Everything but God: Cultivating the ‘Fear of the Lord’.  As one member noted (and I agreed), “Giving it up to God,” is a trite phrase often thrown around.  When folks like myself continue to struggle with issues we face, many would tell us, “You don’t have enough faith or you wouldn’t still be concerned.  You obviously have not given it up to God.”  That line of thinking annoys me (as well as the other member) for a number of reasons:

  • It assumes that God is going to fix everything without my participation.  I can’t believe that.  I love the line (paraphrased) from St. Augustine and used by John Wesley, “God, who made us without ourselves, will not save us without ourselves.”  The life of faith – our relationship with God – is a two-way street.  As in any relationship, we have to work together.  God isn’t going to force God’s grace on us.  We have to accept it, and more often than not, I believe God’s grace isn’t just a change of status but an empowering force of God working with and through us to bring about change in our lives and in the lives of others.  Sometimes God’s grace empowers us to accept a solution that is different than what we might have wanted.
  • We’d have to be heartless people to not have concerns about people, things, and events that tug at our hearts.
  • All too often as hinted at above, people “beat up” other people of the faith, criticizing them for their lack of faith.  This often puts the people who are already fretting into more of a state of worry.  That is not helpful at all.

In response, though, the great theologian (and retired politician) David Farabee made a great point.  He said, properly understood, “Giving it up to God,” is a coping mechanism.  It doesn’t mean the concern won’t come back to “haunt” us at some point.  Properly understood, the words of a prayer might be something like this:

“God, I’m too focused on these concerns right now.  I’m almost paralyzed with fret and worry.  Help me at this moment to redirect my thoughts to something more productive.  Then, let’s get back together later and see if we have come up with a solution for these concerns.”

I think that is part of what Jesus is getting at when he says, “Seek God’s empire and his justice first, and all these things will come to you as a bonus.“  When we are able to set aside our concerns to be able to further God’s empire, God’s kingdom, it takes our mind off of paralyzing frets and worries.  In the process, we might meet people who can help us with our own problems as we help them with theirs.

Questions to ponder:

  • What frets and worries are almost paralyzing me right now?
  • What need in God’s kingdom / empire might I focus on in order to help me to give up my worries – if even for only relatively short amount of time?
  • Who do you know that is paralyzed with frets and worries that you can reach out to in order to help them participate in God’s kingdom / empire?

(Originally posted at http://fumcwf.org/archives/4781 under the title, “Thoughts for Lent: Give It Up to God,” on March 17, 2011)

Amazing Grace?

What’s the point of “grace” in popular Christianity, anyway? What does it mean? What is it for?

I think it is interesting that we stand up in church and sing, “Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me.” It often seems that the next, un-sung line in many people’s minds is, “but not that poor sucker around the corner. He’s too far gone. Not even God’s grace can save him.”

Then, we talk about how the death penalty is a good thing saying, “So and so deserves death. They don’t deserve another chance. Any type of repentance they might show is just a show to try to get off.” Apparently, the un-said part of that is that, “Not even God’s grace can make a difference in that person’s life.”

Some are asked to teach Sunday School, but the response we hear is, “Well, I really don’t know anything about the Bible. I just don’t think I have the ability to do something like that. I’ve never tried, but I really just want to focus on me. I need my own Sunday School class.” What’s not being said here: “I don’t think God, in God’s grace, will help me be able to do this. Grace is something I need. If those in the Sunday School class that need a teacher don’t find or experience God’s grace, it’s not my fault. That’s what God is supposed to do.”

Others are asked to serve food to the less fortunate or the homeless, but what we hear is, “If they want food, they just need to go get a job. It’s their own fault that they are hungry. It’s none of my business.” Maybe what we are really hearing is, “I just don’t think it is fair that everybody has access to God’s grace. I don’t think it should be unconditional. Everybody needs to do something to deserve it.”

Sadly, we forget that, by definition, grace means a FREE gift that one receives even though they don’t deserve it. Sadly, we have the idea that grace is what Dietrich Bonhoeffer called “cheap grace.” The idea here is, “Jesus did it so I won’t have to.” Sadly, we live life as if God’s grace really isn’t all that amazing after all. We claim to be people who “believe the Bible,” and yet we don’t pay attention to (or we ignore) passages such as:

  • There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear; for fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not reached perfection in love.
    (1 John 4:18, NRSV)
  • I am confident of this, that the one [God] who began a good work among you will bring it to completion by the day of Jesus Christ.
    (Philippians 1:6, NRSV)
  • Yes, everything is for your sake, so that grace, as it extends to more and more people, may increase thanksgiving, to the glory of God.
    (2 Corinthians 4:15, NRSV)
  • But [God] said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness.” So, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.
    (2 Corinthians 12:9, NRSV)
  • For by grace you have been saved through faith, and this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God—not the result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are what he has made us, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand to be our way of life.
    (Ephesians 2:8-10, NRSV)
  • I can do all things through him who strengthens me.
    (Philippians 4:13, NRSV)
  • For mortals [salvation] is impossible, but not for God; for God all things are possible.
    (Mark 10:27, NRSV)

What I think all of this means is that we are not all that amazing, and we tend to view the world in that same way. Yet, we forget that God’s grace makes us amazing, makes the world amazing, and allows us to do amazing things in the world for God. Let us not forget that God’s grace is amazing – for ALL people!

(Originally posted at http://theology-of-t-roy.blogspot.com/2009/03/amazing-grace.html on March 9, 2009)

Faith of a Child

“Let me tell you, if you don’t turn yourself around and become like children, you’ll never enter the empire of Heaven.  Therefore, those who lower themselves to [a] child’s level are greatest in the empire of Heaven.”

Matthew 18:3-4 (Scholars Version)

Currently, one of Micah’s (my 15-month old son) favorite things and phrases is “kitty cat.”  He always wants to go look for “kitty cat,” and yesterday he wanted to go outside to look for “kitty cat” (presumably our cat Rascal who has been away from home for a few days).  Well, I thought to myself that going outside to look for “kitty cat” would also be a good time to get the mail, so I picked Micah up and headed outside.  Micah immediately wanted down to walk by himself!

He pointed a few places saying, “Kitty-cat,” and then got distracted.  So, I asked him if he wanted to go with me to get the mail.  He immediately started walking toward the mailbox.

I helped him step off the curb, and we began to walk toward the mail box on the other side of our cul-de-sac.  As we neared the mailbox, Micah got distracted again by something over by the road, so we veered off into another direction.

When he got to the edge of the road, he started walking along the road toward our alley.  At the alley, he wanted to continue along the road, but I finally diverted his attention so we could walk back toward the house.  After about 10 feet it was obvious his little legs were tired as he kept losing his balance and falling.  After about 10 more feet of this up-and-down scenario, he apparently decided to just take a rest on the curb where he sat down.

There by the curb was a smashed bottle cap, trash in my eyes but apparently treasure in his.  He picked that cap up and turned it every which-a-way examining it from every angle.  Then he began to drop it on the side walk, pick it up, and drop it again – over and over!  After a while, he began to look it over yet again.  Then he started scraping it on the concrete back and forth: “scrape, scrape; scrape, scrape.”  Then he’d look it over again.  Several combinations of the above went on for at least 7 minutes before I got bored and picked Micah up to take him back home with that bottle cap clutched firmly in his hand.

Often we are chastised to be careful not to get distracted in our faith.  “Stay focused,” we are told, “and don’t let anything keep us from our goal.”  There is some value to this, but I also question this concept as it assumes that there is only one aspect to our life of faith.  If we serve an infinite God, can our journey of faith be reduced in such a manner?  Likewise, what if an aspect of our faith is not being very fruitful (like looking for “kitty cat” who is beyond our current reach); doesn’t it make sense to focus on an area that is fruitful, like seeking and finding treasure (like a smashed bottle cap)?  We can come back to that other aspect of faith later in our journey of faith (just as Micah wanted to look for “kitty cat” later in the day), but in the meantime, we can be fruitful in other ways.

Sometimes, we are also told what is treasure and what is not, and we are not given an opportunity to decide for ourselves.  I could have taken that bottle cap away from Micah, since in my definition it was worthless trash.  Micah had another definition, though, that increased my appreciation for the simpleness of that treasure.  His inquisitiveness reminded me that there is probably treasure in many things in my life of faith that I have been told or have labeled myself as trash.  We need to approach the world and our journeys of faith with a willingness to look for treasure in what appears to be trash – and trash in what appears to be treasure.

Questions to ponder:

  • How can our lives of faith be more multifaceted, mirroring the multifaceted nature of God?
  • What in our journeys of faith needs to be re-evaluated to determine if they are really trash or treasure?
  • How can we regain the inquisitive nature of a child in our lives of faith?

(Originally posted at http://fumcwf.org/archives/4680 under the title, “Thoughts for Lent: Faith of a Child,” on March 9, 2011)

Up in Heaven?

So often when talking about life, Christianity, and / or what happens after death, we talk about “going up to heaven” as if heaven is up there, out there, above the clouds.

Recently, in a New Testament Bible Study, we were talking about life after death. One of the members, Clark, who has been widowed for about 1 1/2 years, told of an event that happened last April. He said that all day had been a “normal day” until he was watching the news that evening. He realized, after seeing the date, that it was his wedding anniversary, to which he exclaimed, “It’s our anniversary today.” Plain as day, he said he heard his wife, Joan, say, “Why, yes, Sweetie. It’s our anniversary.” This, he noted, was just one of many times he really feels like his wife is still with him.

How can this be? Isn’t heaven up there, out there, above the clouds?

I think we have a false sense of heaven. The ancient world view was that the earth was flat. On top of this flat earth was a dome (imagine a basketball cut in half and set on top of a flat surface).  Above that dome was water (see Genesis 1: 6-8) that sometimes opened to let water down to the earth (rain). In the dome were two great lights, the sun and moon (see Genesis 1:14-19). Above it all was heaven. Some believed God resided there only. Others believed God lived only in the tabernacle, or later, the temple. Either way, heaven was “up there, out there, above the clouds.” Today, though, we know that the world is not flat. We know there is not a “dome” above the earth. We know more about where the sun and moon is. Why do we still maintain that heaven is up there, out there, above the clouds?

I find it amazing, though, that in the same funeral services where we talk about our loved ones “going up to heaven,” we also say, that our loved ones have been reunited with God. After hearing Clark’s story, I remembered Bible passages such as:

  • Psalm 139: 7 Where can I go from your spirit? Or where can I flee from your presence? 8 If I ascend to heaven, you are there; if I make my bed in Sheol, you are there. 9 If I take the wings of the morning and settle at the farthest limits of the sea, 10 even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me fast. (NRSV)
  • Acts 17:28 For “In him we live and move and have our being’; as even some of your own poets have said, “For we too are his offspring.’ (NRSV)
  • Ephesians 4:  4 There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to the one hope of your calling, 5 one Lord, one faith, one baptism, 6 one God and Father of all, who is above all and through all and in all. (NRSV)

If it is true that there is no place we can go where we can be beyond God’s presence; if it is true that it is in God that we live and move and have our being; if it is true that there is one God who is above all and through all and in all, couldn’t heaven be right here with us, all around us? If we really believe that we will be “united with God” in death, and God is here and everywhere, maybe our loved ones who have gone before are not up there, out there, above the clouds. Maybe they, like God, remain here with us in some way we cannot fully comprehend.

Maybe, as the 80s pop song goes: Ooh, heaven is a place on earth!

(Originally posted at http://theology-of-t-roy.blogspot.com/2006/12/up-in-heaven.html on December 6, 2006)